Until You've Seen Their Angry Side....
And today....i CLEARLY see the type of person a certain someone is.
Like i've mentioned before...for a while now i've made it a point to not waste time with men that are my age or younger simply because every man ive encountered that is my age or younger is in fact still a 15 year old boy, mentally.Well it appears even guys 2-3years older than i, are STILL mental teenagers.
DISHEARTENING!
So if you can recall I talked about scrubs the other day and a certain relationship i dipped out on with a quickness due to some irreconcilable differences. The guy(lets call him charlie shall we?), "Charlie" and I remained on neutral terms. Two days after we broke it off he went back to his ex (which did not surprise me at all), but did make it a little harder to be completely cool with the guy and a little easier to question his motives with me to begin with. I wouldnt call him a good friend nor my worst enemy he's just someone Im "okay" with. Nevertheless...im a lover not a bitter baby and i usually dont hold grudges. So as far as im concerned we have no issues with one another...
A couple of my homies dj at a popular bar on the St. Mary's Strip every wednesday.A bar i've been going to for a couple of months now.Im somewhat a "regular" i suppose. Charlie just so happens to be good friends with one of the djs on wednesdays...a dj i too am good friends with...Lets call himmm Plex. So technically Charlie isnt a wednesday night dj but bc hes friends with Plex, he'll help set up and kinda stand there next to him all night occasionally spinning a 10 minute mix. So i get this message today via myspace, titled "i come in peace" (sure you do)from charlie.
Basically he states that he's bringing his woman to the bar tonight and tells me to not go...he claims that some drama will go down and that next wednesday he'll buy me a beer if i stay away from the bar tonight.
Bitch please! First of all when have i ever needed you to buy me a beer? Did you ever buy beers when i dated you? Could have sworn it was always me buying them.(stupid me) What in the world makes you think a free beer next week will bribe me into canceling MY plans so that you dont have to feel awkward or deal with drama.
Second of all...it wasnt even a request....it was a fuckin demand and you dont demand things from people and assume theyll come quietly and abide by everything you say because not everyone is like that. and i sure as hell am not that type of woman. You cant force someone you dont want to see to stay away from a place you both regularly go to and enjoy. Sorry! Its not happening.Exes and summer flings and one night stands and all that nonsense go to the same clubs and bars and hang out spots all the time...why is it that YOU have to be the one to make it unpleasant.
Lets dig a little deeper into the situation, shall we? One of my best friends is the other dj on wednesdays...lets call him Villian(he'd know why). Now whats funny is that villian warned me about charlie from the get go. villian has always had my best interest at heart. He can be painfully honest at times but thats how villian is.its tough love and i appreciate him for it.villian is a really great dj...im not just saying that bc hes my best friend. im saying that bc its the truth...hes the guy that plays the song that gets you to the dancefloor...hes the dj that KEEPS you on your feet,dancing until youre sweaty. thats villian for ya and wednesday nights at this bar DO NOT receive the credit they deserve...so thats what i do. every wednesday i try to get as much people as i can to come out and dance to these great djs. wednesdays and/or thursdays are also the only night i really go out. especially when my baby's dad has his weekends off. that means i dont get to do much on the weekends there for wednesdays are my break nights that im so gratefully given.Overall, wednesdays are MY thing. my fun night, my break night, my dance night, my see the girls night, my mingle with males night.
So after reading Charlies message i stayed as polite as possible with him and nicely stated that i would not ruin my prearranged plans for him and that if it helps ill keep major distance between them and i. I could do that. Im not a child. Im not there for him nor do i care if theyre butt naked and humping on the dance floor. by all means do your thing. I have my eye on a bigger and better prize. He insisted i stay away from the bar wednesday, i politely tried to compremise in evry which way i could. but of course there was no getting thru to this thick headed boy. Eventually he started making threats. MAJOR threats. Which were completely out of line and uncalled for. With each message his threats and words got more and more rude and vicious and eventually turned into an issue that involved not only me but villians girlfriend whom im rather close with. So now this conversation turned into an argument which led to a full blown war between us....yet not once did i take cheap shots or make threats back. i did however inform villian of the situation as to give him a heads up of the potential sabotage Charlie was planning and i dont think villian was too pleased. the threats he was making would potentially affect me and villian's lady, in return upsetting villian...and eventually messing up business for the bar...and bc we all knew who started this....Plex would also have some problems bc charlie indeed "djs" with plex.
So here i sit....hours later,at work, not working, hungry and still semi annoyed. It shouldnt have gone this far. He truly turned into someone i do not know...all bc he didnt get his way...something ive been allowing him to have since we met. I stand my ground and it is honest ground at that.I even contacted his lady and apologized for the situation and made known that there is no drama with me. That im a nice girl and i can understand if she feels uneasy about me but i have NO feelings whatsoever for Charlie. She herself was really understanding and there didnt seem to big that big of an issue....yet why did charlie turn into a monster over this?
I do not know...all i know is that you cant really say you know a person until youve gotten on their bad side. only then will their true colors come out and only then can you see the TYPE of person they are....in this case...well he's someone i dont think id let or want in completely.
Watch those Dr.jeckel and Mr.Hyde type men, ladies....theyre big NO-NOs.
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